Choosing a Better Existence

Posted Aug. 20, 2014 by Silverghost in Open

commented on Aug. 24, 2014
by Silverghost



What are spiritually aware people doing? Choosing a better existence that is more constructive and aware, we of course could say modern day science minded people are doing same by becoming more aware and technologically advanced, to a spiritually aware person however modern day science seems to be destroying the very thing most spiritually aware people cherish, life itself and the very thing that life relies on to exist, our very own planet.

Now there is an obvious huge difference between these two choices of existence even though they are both about expanding on our awareness but the big difference is, one is destructive the other is trying to be constructive. Is one wrong or right over the other? If we judge destructiveness as being negative we are judging destructiveness as being wrong however there are no right or wrongs in spirituality. The reason for this is there is no judgement so if we choose to live a destructive life, what kind of mentality is needed to live in a destructive existence, what do we deem this kind of life to be? If we can’t judge what a destructive existence relate too what is it then?

Because there is no right or wrongs within spiritualty, because there is no judgement, a destructive existence is but a choice, no more no less, it is neither right nor wrong, negative nor positive, it’s a choice we have in the way we want to exist. Most spiritually aware people have chosen to exist in a more constructive existence, an existence that takes in the consideration of all of life not just the life of man himself over and above all other life forms. Spiritualty is in contrary to what science is about as it’s quite plain to see that science is about egotism where’s spirituality isn’t or isn’t supposed to be. Does this make modern day science wrong or negative in some way as it’s in opposition to spirituality in a lot of ways, it’s quite destructive for starters? The answer for me being spiritually aware is no, this choice of existence is neither wrong nor negative; it’s but a choice of what mentality we wish to exist under.

Do we really have a choice? Many spiritually aware and non-spiritually aware people say no, we live in hell or a negative destructive chaotic existence, there is no physical choice, we are entrapped in a destructive existence that’s it!!

I have had to endure a chronic injury since I was six years old, I am now 50 years old, you could say I was entrapped within a physical and mental existence that I had no way in escaping but that’s not true. Even if I chose to live within a destructive existence, I still wouldn’t have been entrapped for the main reason I still had a choice in what mentality I was going to exist by. I of course chose a more constructive existence but I know I still have a choice of choosing a more destructive existence if I want too, I still have a choice no matter what.

I don’t see my life experience as being any different to the choices we have as a collective, we all have a choice in the way we want to exist which is mainly determined by our mentality not our physical situation. This reality is quite destructive and chaotic for the main reason we have chosen such a way to exist, we now realise from our awareness there are many other ways we can exist that are far more constructive.

What happens when we change our mentality to a more constructive way to exist, can this literally change our physical reality? For me I don’t see a wrong and right, negative or positive as much these days in everything around me, I now see it as choices we make in the way we want to exist but can this kind of mentality actually change or physical reality?

I will answer this question like this; I have a chronic injury but I still performed physical tasks, at times, that fully able people didn’t want to do because it was too hard of work, I also accomplished these tasks without pain killers. Now can our choice of existence change our physical and mental reality? It is obvious it can otherwise how did I do what I did!! Now let’s look at what this choice of constructive existence can do collectively.

The collective has already created an actual physical reality of destruction, why can’t we now collectively also create an actual physical reality of constructive existence that takes in consideration of all life forms not just one life form, man? I’m a good example this can quite easily be obtained but to do this we need to stop judging what is good and bad, negative and positive, right and wrong, this kind of judgment is only in relation to a destructive mentality not a constructive mentality. A constructive mentality is brought about only seeing choices to be made in the way we choose to exist, none of these choices are seen to be wrong or right over the other, they are just choices we can exist by.

At the moment I’m conversing with a person who deems themselves to be science minded, they are noticeably highly aggressively abusive and stoop quite often to deceiving to prove their points, this isn’t the only time I have chosen to deal with such people, why would I bother? This is the question that is asked of me quite often by other spiritually aware people, the point is I haven’t judged them to be negative or bad in some way, it’s a choice of existence they have chosen to exist by, that is all. Just because there vibrations are different to mine, does this make their vibrations wrong or negative compared to my constructive mentality and their destructive mentality? The only difference is one is constructive the other destructive, this is quite noticeable within the aggressive abuse and obvious deception by such people. Do I then judge this kind of destructive mentality as being negative or wrong? No, it’s just a choice we make in the way we want to exist by, that is all.

When I most often read these people’s replies, I can literally physically feel the vibrational change within my body, we could probably judge this as being a bad thing to experience but it’s not, actually it’s a very good sign.

The reason this is a very good sign is it shows me, in a physical way, that I am not of this kind of destructive vibration; I’m being told through my physical body that my choice of existence is more constructive than a person who has chosen a more destructive way to exist. We could of course judge this reaction as being positive if we were to allow the ego to influence us to judge such things in the first place. Actually this kind of reaction is neither positive nor negative; it’s just a sign that my choice of existence is more constructive. I wrote about tribe mentality in past posts, this is a part of this tribe mentality in not judging a right or wrong but just a choice in the way we choose to exist, a choice of either a destructive or constructive mentality, nothing more or less.

People with a destructive mentality can be very forceful and influence us in their own destructive ways, the ego in this case will not doubt judge this as being negative, how do we stop these people influencing us so and how do we stop the ego from influencing us to judge these people negative?

It all comes down to our mentality, if we are ourselves constructive within our own mentality, if these people can still get to you and influence you, you are still of their mentality and will judge what is and isn’t negative and positive. How do we strengthen our mentality to resist other people’s destructive mentality? There is a huge array of spiritual and psychological information out there that will assist in strengthening our mentally but in most parts, if we come in contact with a person with a destructive mentality, try to see that it was their choice to exist in such a destructive existence, it’s just another way to exist that we can all choose or not choose to experience. Some people choose to be destructive some don’t, it’s just a choice we all make. Just because we chose to exist in a more constructive way doesn’t mean everybody else should. Being of a more constructive mentality, we really don’t have a right to push our way of existing onto others even though that is what these people do who exist by destructive mentalities.

Be constructive if you choose and see the way we choose to exist is only a choice as it is for anyone.

  • Silverghost Aug 24, 2014

    Oh boy, do we judge such destructive condescending criticism as being negative and wrong? It is so easy to do so as the ego is telling us that such criticism is wrong. At this point it is very difficult to see this kind of action in any other light only because we too are still being destructive within our own mentality to some degree, it seems impossible to perceive past this kind of mentality, many people can't!!

    It all comes down of course to what kind of mentality we choose to be expressive through, either It be a destructive or constructive mentality. The destructive mentality will just perceive this kind of behaviour negatively but a constructive mentality only perceives a choice in how one wants to exist without judging such choices as being negative or positive.

    The ego wants it to be one or the other as the ego can only exist and control through choosing a negative or a positive, if one was to stay neutral and not choose either, the ego loses some of it's control every time we do this.

    Will this eventually stop us from interacting and reacting with and to people who have chosen to live by a destructive mentality? You would think so but no, because you no longer judge a negative or positive, you are no longer struggling and conflicting with such opposing choices within yourself, you have become neutral within your observations rather than judgemental through choosing a negative or positive. You really don't have to choose between a negative or positive, you can choose to stay neutral!

  • NoetPoet Aug 24, 2014

    "Also with empirical evidence you may be overlooking the 'observation' aspect "

    What "observation aspect"?
    "Reality agrees with my 'assumptions' - otherwise I would have kept them to myself. "

    How do you know it agrees with you? Show your work.

    "Still looking forward to your singular explanation of the previously mentioned 'explainable phenomenon'."


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    SufferingServant Aug 24, 2014

    Eek.. "unexplainable" phenomenon..

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    SufferingServant Aug 24, 2014

    Also with empirical evidence you may be overlooking the 'observation' aspect

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    SufferingServant Aug 24, 2014

    Reality agrees with my 'assumptions' - otherwise I would have kept them to myself.

    Still looking forward to your singular explanation of the previously mentioned 'explainable phenomenon'.

    Planning on making another thread for you to argue against soon.

  • NoetPoet Aug 24, 2014

    "In other words.. There is a difference between logically understanding 'something' and scientifically proving 'something'."

    Yes, the difference is that logically understanding something doesn't require any of the underlying assumptions to actually be true, it merely requires that they are consistent with each other. Science on the other hand says that you should actually bother to ask reality what it thinks (i.e. by empirically testing your ideas) before you go making declarations about it.

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    SufferingServant Aug 24, 2014

    In other words.. There is a difference between logically understanding 'something' and scientifically proving 'something'.

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    SufferingServant Aug 24, 2014

    I think science cannot explain everything that is true.

    For example, can science disprove or prove a solution to a mathematical equation?

  • Silverghost Aug 21, 2014

    For sure SS, we are certainly creators in our own right and we have obviously been created.

    You can notice on this board who is and isn't destructive within their mentality, at times however we do all change our mentality to either being destructive or constructive. I do think having an open mind is more constructive than a closed mind, religion is a goods example of this closed minded mentality and so is science thinking it's the be and end all.

    It's funny how religious and science mentalities come close to being the same thing but of course to see this you have to be unbiased either way.

    I upset so many spiritually aware people when I say science one day will prove or disprove everything known to us even the existence of God or a higher consciousness. This of course can only be obtained through science if it drops the be and end all mentality, the controlling factors of the ego.

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    SufferingServant Aug 21, 2014

    I would suggest we are all both creators and creation.

    The destructive are creating destruction. The constructive are creating 'love'.

    In my mind those who create destruction are 'playing a subgame' that starts when they conclude 'I am me' as a child while simultaneously and incorrectly concluding 'I am only me' or 'I am not what is outside of me' or 'I am not my environment'.

    Those who conclude 'I am me' but do not create destruction are truly inspiring :-)

  • Silverghost Aug 20, 2014

    G'day Suffering Servant

    Yes of course, I'm not an ego basher even though it might seem that way at times.

    The selfless ego pertains to an ego not in control but a selfish ego is in relation to controlling ego, it's choice to either live destructively or constructively.

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    SufferingServant Aug 20, 2014

    Selfish ego, yes.

    Selfless ego, no.

  • Silverghost Aug 20, 2014

    G'day Suffering Servant

    Science is wasteful because science is controlled by the ego, the ego is noticeably destructive and wasteful. This also happens in spirituality/religion as well, the Dark Ages are a very good example of this. Once the ego takes control over an ideological principle, such principles and ideologies become destructive no matter what ideological principles they are.

    Modern day science doesn't need to go down this path if it became aware of such circumstances, being the be and end all isn't going to help. In all however it's all but a choice of what mentality we are going to exist by either it be destructive or constructive!!

    The multinationals won't allow the sciences to fix our existing problems, they are making too much many from them.

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    SufferingServant Aug 20, 2014

    It's false-science and gross inefficient and wasteful science that is the problem.

    We don't need to look in space to find answers to problems or look for new problems. We should be looking here and fixing the existing problems.

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